As a rule, men have almost never problems with arousal and getting orgasm during sex. This is not the case in women: often, even after a long foreplay long-awaited feeling of "butterflies in the stomach" never comes. But we want to adapt to the desires and the pace my man. As a woman to help yourself as quickly as possible to get excited, tell in detail our journal.
To come to a solution to the problem, first we need to clearly define what it is.
Every woman has its own collection of tricks, because either way, everyone had to think on excitation, each has certain observations and conclusions. In the comments you can share your opinion on this matter, after reading (useful, hopefully) recommendations.
Assuming we are not talking about "first times", you can say that a specific sexual experience you have, and therefore is the most important and important for "starting" butterflies in the stomach and such a sweet anticipation. Is your memory . It holds the key to rapid and effective direction of the mood in the right direction. This applies not only to sex.
Of course, to give yourself confidence, people can remember and recreate the moment when he felt confident. To enhance the mood here and now, you want to reproduce vivid memory of a positive event.
Well, to sadden without reason is enough for us to remember something bad. This chain works here. Add a little imagination, you can already feel the sweet sensation in the abdomen. By the way, for those who have a strong imagination, can be enough only a fantasy.
And for those whose imagination is not going well, or as a supplementary stimulant, we suggest to try the "delicious" movie. If you are now disdainfully wrinkled nose, do not rush to close the page. After all, it really works. It is not clear why a person experiences sexual arousal during the erotic scenes, but it is.
This is another issue that acceptable, and even nice to watch him - easy, romantic or erotic movies with three letters x. Treat yourself and loved movie night or when stiffness or superstition interfere with it, experiment with eye to eye. After all, nobody knows.
It is believed that a hot bath helps, because it stimulates circulation. Use your favorite oils, candles, fragrances and other "pleasures" to your taste. Some that have such an effect, we will consider below.
The item a lot of attention paid to will not. Most understand how it works. The main thing - do not overdo it.
You can experience more drastic measures, if only one effect on the emotional system does not produce results. Combine some of the above options or with a tender and gentle touch. Or rough if you want. Select time. Get to know your body, love yourself.
The list of aphrodisiacs in the list above will easily make a full "aphrodisiac" menu. You can brew and infuse a variety of teas and drinks.
In addition, we offer you to make a separate paragraph , infusion of Rhodiola rosea (Golden root, Tibetan ginseng) . In folk medicine it is used for more than two thousand years to treat a variety of diseases, and use several tablespoons of the tincture an hour before close to increase anxiety and the extent of the fun.
As mentioned in the methods of independent excitation, the secret is in the memory, the imagination, the regular repetition. After all, only by constantly training yourself, you will be excited when it is needed (if not needed).
Read an interesting novel with beautiful bed scenes, watch the movie according to your taste.
Think about sex, fantasize. Imagine yourself with cause you to have a certain desire a man. Do not hesitate and swing the bounds of decency. Do with it what you really want, what would not dare in real life.
Simple: buy beautiful and sexy underwear. This in which yourself want.
It's important to love yourself and your body. Admire your reflection in the mirror in this outfit, stand in a beautiful pose, smile. Rate your dignity, your sexuality. You are beautiful, isn't it?
Even on ordinary days be sexy. No wonder you got this lovely kit? Don't forget about how much sex under everyday clothing.
With the word "toys", you have associations? If nothing untoward that we need to do something. If the question is really how quickly excited the most, this option is good at least three parties:
Thus, on excitation. Selecting the compact option among a wide variety, try to take her with him. Accidentally stumbled on this intimate attribute in the handbag, in addition to possible embarrassment, the natural will and desire that you will experience, remembering your recent piquant entertainment.
Most importantly, this:
The answer is obvious - to try something else.
However, in large stores, whether online or in your city, among the wide range is something that will have to taste each pair of: clothing, accessories, toys, games for foreplay and sex , you name it. It remains only to choose.