Female sexual arousal – one of the great mysteries of nature. If men are capable of experiencing sexual attraction for a few seconds, then representatives of the beautiful half of humanity can only dream about it. Unfortunately, not all men know how to turn a girl on.
It is worth noting the main and obvious fact – all women are different. One young lady to feel sexual arousal, you need a few hot kisses, another pair of familiar words, the third won't start without the stimulating massage.
And yet, psychology, anatomy and life experience suggests that there is a standard, time-tested methods of excitation of a woman.
What it is, she? The chase throughout the body, hot vagina, a blank look – typical signs of sexual arousal in women. The surrounding world ceases to exist in my head are no longer any reasonable thought. Animal instincts want to escape, the body demands the continuation and, more importantly, the final discharge.
Signs of sexual arousal in girls
As a rule, a girl needs 15 minutes of active and passive affection, to experience these feelings. How does this mysterious process from the point of view of physiology?
During the active sex, particularly stimulation of the clitoris and the Breasts, the blood arrives to the genitals. Is humidity between the thighs, an increased heartbeat and body temperature, breathing quickens. Tense muscles in the abdomen is another classic sign of the excited female body.
Male and female arousal – the distinctive features:
- Men craving for girls there quickly. A typical example: the street is a spectacular woman with a good figure. Mini skirt and high heels emphasize the beauty of long legs. Bright, but not makeup, well-groomed hair, nice perfume... How many men looking at this seductress, feel sexual arousal? Yes, almost all!
- The women all the more complicated and confusing. A man can be a completely normal appearance, with "beer" belly, bald little resemblance to the athlete. Nevertheless it will be popular among women. Why? Because he knows the psychology of women. Such a man is always at the top of sexual Olympus.
Truth number 1. How to turn a girl on? Give the impression of a strong man. Create the image of the conqueror, the dominant.
A woman wants a strong man. Someone who can defend in case of danger. Modern houses are not much different from their primitive predecessors. That man had a dozen mistresses, a few centuries ago? The one who scored more than all the animals and enemies, who are best hunted, who was the boss in the house!
Bodily factors of sexual arousal in women
And yet, no matter how hard man to please girlish "oddities" in the emotional sphere, there are two female physiological factors that cannot be circumvented:
- frequency of intimate contacts in women;
- day of the menstrual cycle.
If a woman has had a big break in sex, she is faster than her loving counterpart. Nature requires that your body wants affection and a man's touch.
However, we cannot exclude past sexual experience. Intimacy should not cause the girl unpleasant memories, and the stagnation in the sexual sphere must not be associated with painful associations.
Women in every period of the menstrual cycle have varying degrees of sexual desire. It is easier to turn a girl on during ovulation and hardest just before menstruation.
During ovulation a woman experiences great sexual desire. This is a natural phenomenon predetermined by nature. During this period easiest to become pregnant, so the woman is excited easily and without much effort from the partner.
Before menstruation, on the contrary, sexual desire is almost zero. The reason for this high level of hormones in the body, irritability, abdominal pain.
The course is psychology. Compliments, conversations and atmosphere.
A woman always appreciates discreet male attention. It flatters her vanity helps keep yourself in shape. Most of the ladies doing make up, visit beauty salons and buy sexy but not slutty clothes to please men.
Truth number 2. No woman will remain indifferent to sincere compliments. Words of delight excite!
Want to excite a woman? Express approval. One trivial phrase of admiration, and the woman wishes to continue the acquaintance. Especially appreciated the compliments about appearance (otherwise, why follow him?). Good to note and women's intelligence, modesty, a cheerful disposition.
Classic compliments that will never fail:
- "You have a very nice smile (nice eyes, soft hands)".
- "You're easy to talk to".
- "You look great in this dress (sweater, hat)".
Male voice is a good helper when excited girls. Deep, with a wheeze, he sets the woman on the right wave.
Truth number 3. To excite a woman, a man must speak quietly and clearly, not to miss any opportunity to touch his partner.
Male interested in a desirable woman. Now you need to the chosen one felt confidence in him. Because women perceive sex as something more than a natural need of the body. Mostly girls want to know your partner, to feel his power, reliability.
How a man can excite a woman? By means of a simple and rich conversation!
Truth number 4. Want to excite a woman? Start asking her questions of a personal nature: what she likes for Breakfast, what clothes he prefers to wear that most values in people.
A woman will never be in a state of excitement, if she is uncomfortable in the presence of a partner. The less discomfort brings the communication process, the more likely men are to see the girls excitement.
If the relationship has already held in the company of chocolates and flowers, as a strong exciting factor will approach talking about sex. A brief history of sexual nature, and whispers in your ear, causes great sexual desire in women. Therefore, it is impossible not to mention the fact that men love to see a spicy scene, and women to talk about them.
Truth number 5. How to excite a woman? Invite her on a date, where will reign fantastic atmosphere.
A romantic date, where unique atmosphere, is conducted with the purpose of seduction. The final good secluded meetings are always single – sex.
Quiet music, the smell of flowers and flickering candles, soft drinks, light snacks – a great atmosphere for the evening ready! If during the date, the man will be polite, maintain a light conversation, a woman in such circumstances will surely feel sexual attraction.
The female head carried by thought: "What a cute, nice man! It for me he worked so hard." The man who makes beautiful things, very exciting.
Touch and other exciting actions
Arousal women is growing gradually, step by step. Especially with a new partner. Touch need unobtrusive: to remove the eyelashes with the eyelid, put your hand on the waist at the entrance to the restaurant to correct the curl of the hair. So soft, second touch will eventually play an important role.
Even women like long contacts eyes. The man who stares into the eyes of your partner, is experiencing interest in it. Perhaps even delight, approval. The look should be warm, accompanied by a faint smile.
Truth number 6. Nearly all women are turned on by kisses on the neck and décolleté.
Kissing his neck, slowly at first, language not to use. Best to start near the right or left ear, gradually moving to the center. After you can work. Lick a piece of skin on the neck, blow and dream to lick. You can gently bite, pinch lips. And again gentle kiss her.
Begin to caress the chest is from the top of the neckline, near the collarbone. Gradually lowered to the nipple.
Nipples are a very sensitive organ. They should be treated with extreme caution. To circle the tongue around the nipple, gently squeeze the lips, gently kiss – a few of such movements can excite the girl to madness.
Stimulating breast massage can melt even the most "snow Queen". The touch should be confident, but gentle. Alternate pinching, stroking, rubbing. Around my nipples are best confined to the stroking and rubbing.
A woman loves to feel on his body, strong male hands. It gives her a sense of security and reliability.
Truth number 7. Many women greatly excited by the slow stroking of the inner thighs and buttocks.
Intimate caresses or kisses you need to perform wisely. For one woman the excitation of the clitoris by hand – this is unacceptable, the other is happy to take this lesson. That is why, before to go directly to the location, you need to check the soil. To draw the right conclusions about the character of lady, manners, upbringing, worldview.
To caress the clitoris hand men should be soft and warm. A gentle, barely noticeable movement to touch the clitoris of a girl. In a second repeat motion. To touch the clitoris with your fingertips, almost not noticeable. First, you need to act carefully, slowly. Let the man's hand a few seconds lie between a woman's thighs.
Now you can caress, lightly press on the clitoris. To caress this gentle intimate part of a girl's body rhythmically and gently. Well, if the man alternates between stroking and squeezing. Imagine the clitoris is a canvas and our fingers brush. Draw on the canvas, diagonal lines, large and small circles.
The spontaneity, the men's excitement and dedication
Women like variety in sex. This is especially true for couples who are already together for many years. The usual sexual script not to start: the night, the children put to bed, darkness, a couple of timid kisses and directly intimacy.
A man who wishes to bring a woman, should be able to fantasize. Spontaneous sex after work right in the shoes intriguing! Right in the hallway, revealing only the genitals. If the actions are accompanied by laughter or words, full of passion, the man does not even have to fondle a girl. Express affection by the tongue and hands for another occasion. A few passionate kisses on the lips, and the woman already weak from the passion.
Truth number 8. Unplanned intimacy excites a woman.
A man should never hide his excitement. A woman likes to see men's sexual desire. To be cherished, irreplaceable – this dream of all representatives of the beautiful half of humanity.
Truth number 9. A man can just say about your strong sexual arousal and a woman ready to surrender to him.
Nature is so inherent that the female likes to have a strong male shoulder. The woman who always dominates in the intimate sphere, afraid that the man will not bring her satisfaction. Therefore it is simpler to take matters into their own hands, than to experience the disillusionment, the shame and dissatisfaction with a partner.
To summarize. To turn a girl on, you need to:
- to act as a strong, confident man;
- create sex atmosphere is romantic and intimate;
- to make compliments;
- to be a gentleman, talking to your partner;
- don't forget to "accidentally" touch a woman;
- to show imagination;
- to have in its Arsenal a wide range of solutions.
What not to do!
- to be aggressive;
- to talk loudly, to argue, prove their point of view;
- always silent;
- to be poor in kissing and petting;
- to think only about their own satisfaction, to consider woman as just another sexual object.